Contributed by Melanie Vannuys
The time may come when your debt may become unbearable. As unfortunate as this is, it doesn't have to be the end of the world. Take a few steps to keep it from getting out of control:
1. Accept Full Responsibility - The credit card company didn't twist your arm to accept their credit cards and they most certainly didn't force you to max it out. Failure to accept your debt problems will only allow it to continue. Debt can make it difficult to save for your child's education and future as well as setting a poor financial example.
2. Rid Yourself of Instant Gratification - Know the difference between your "wants" and your "needs." Until your debt is under control, you may have to buy used instead of new, stop keeping up with the latest gadgets and trends and allow your car to run another year.
3. Establish a Budget - And stick to it! By allowing yourself only so much per month for your basic living expenses and a little less entertainment, you can get out of debt eventually.
4. Set Financial Goals - If you don't have a map, how will you know when you get where you're supposed to be? Consider your financial goals a road map to your financial security. Set goals for saving for college, buying your home, retirement and emergencies.
5. Setup a Debt Repayment Plan - Make a plan to pay off your debt and stick to it. It may involve debt consolidation and budget planning, but the most important part of repaying your debt is not accruing new debt!