Contributed by Luey
However, if you can set smaller goals such as saying to yourself that by the end of this year I will only have $6,000 in credit card debt, the task at hand will be more realistic. The psychological effects of achieving a goal, even if it is a small goal, is so much better than setting standards that are unrealistic and falling short of that standard.
It is comforting to know that you are not alone in your debt problems. Many Americans are burdened with credit card debt. Most of us lack financial management skills that are so important for obtaining financial security. You can take solace in the fact that you are among many of smart people that just hit a little speed bump in your personal financial life.
One organization that is known for debt management support is Debtors Anonymous www.debtorsanonymous.org. This group is composed of people who share the same experience as you and would be a great way to gain insight into the root of your debt problems. Also, if you haven't done so already check out some of the message boards on debt management, www.ivillage.com is a great site to read postings from people who are in the same boat as yourselves.
There are many inspirations stories of those of us who have emerged debt-free, as well as tips on how to lower your credit card debt. Just remember that you are not alone, with a little planning and a lot of execution, debt can be a thing of your past.