Contributed by Melanie Vannuys
While these are examples of things that are out of your control, there are things you may do that are within your control that add to your debt woes. If you use your credit cards for more than emergencies knowing you will only be able to pay the minimum amount at the end of the month, then there is a problem. Yes, debt management can help get you under control and back on track, but if you don't learn from your mistakes you're going to wind right back up in the same predicament you just got out of.
How can you avoid being the problem? Simple - develop responsible spending habits. Give yourself an allowance and avoid unnecessary trips to the ATM machine. How many times have we done a $20 withdrawal and at the end of the day come up with an empty wallet and no idea where the money went? Only use your credit cards for emergencies and make sure you pay them in full each month. Don't cut yourself short each month by having to use your allowance to pay past debts.
Once you have decided what to do with your debt, plan to work and work your plan. There's no shame in asking for help, you are definitely in abundant company when it comes to being in debt, millions of Americans get further in the hole daily. But once you have freed yourself of that monkey on your back, don't let yourself fall back into the same trap. Make a budget that you can live with and don't cheat. Avoid unnecessary trips to the ATM. Establish and stick to goals to help your debt reduction seem less painful.